Especially if I'm a religious Christian woman. You don't keep your mouth shut when your husband is doing what he's doing and demoralising the whole world and blaspheming God. I don't care how much you love the person you say, if you don't go get help and bend the knee to God.
Because you're now a dry drunk, no longer actively drinking like you did for 20 years, morning, noon and night. There is no way you can be emotionally present for a family making hundreds of millions of dollars in a fancy career, and you are just spiralling out of control. Maybe he needs a good Jewish woman, Tucker.
To tell him how it is. There's a great story that my mentor once taught me. She's Catholic and she's a Damea, a very religious woman. She was silver for 45 years from alcohol. She watched her sister get molested by her father. Till she was 13 years old, she had a room ,and she always felt like she was the ugly one 'cause her father molested her sister and not her. She's one of the greatest minds in the world.
I think she's 97 right now. And she explained to me the reason why she started drinking at five years old is that her father is a big drinker, is an Irish Catholic, and she wanted to go to the runner, but he wouldn't let her. And you wanted to stay home on the farm, and she explained to me.