All the beautiful things in this earth not always made for our personal life. For example the moon. We all knows that moon is beautiful, maybe beautiful because it has huge distance from us. We usually consider things precious and beautiful when its afar. But when we get closer, we mostly lost the attraction and the beauty mostly gone from the thing which was considered beautiful from afar. Moon is beautiful but it has spots.
Sometimes maintain distance can makes us valuable. Say a film actor or cricketer or a kind of celebrity whom we never can meet but we are a big fan. After meeting we lost the attraction most of the time and never feel the craze we felt before met the celebrity. There are huge examples I have and personally I've experienced too. You may feel the craze after seeing someone or something beautiful but when you get closer, either you get more crazy or you lost the attraction or interest to it. When you lost the attraction or interest to it, you feel like it was better in distance.
In school life I had a crush on my class topper. He was not so fair but handsome. His personality was very attractive and his wisdom was the reason behind my attraction to he. His being topper in the class was the strong point of my attraction. Honestly I've never felt physical attraction but I always wanted a man like him to be my partner and it had strong reasons. It was not love because it had reason of liking and expecting him in life.
It was infatuation. Once I tried to contact him and offered him friendship but he rejected my friendship and told that he can't accept me as life partner and he is scared to fall in love with me so he can't even friendship with me. We had a long conversation over phone and at the end of conversation when he rejected me, he told me that I'm very strong, because I didn’t cried and beg for his company, He was expecting that I may cry and beg him to be in my life but I was not that crazy for anyone in my life thankfully.
So moral of the story is that, after the conversation I've lost my attraction. He and his family always maintain there level of status, like financial status. He was my classmate since school days and my crush. I consider him like a moon, who was the most beautiful from afar. Honestly I don't feel the attraction after the conversation, not because he refused me but because I couldn’t find the strong personality in his conversation. So if you want to be apart from a attraction, be more closer and gradually you'll lost the interest. Not necessary all the things will be always as beautiful as afar.
So my deep thoughts made me realize that, to be apart, be more closer and gradually either you get bored or you lost interest forever. Most of the people may be able to get out from the attraction but if the thing is really mean to be beautiful always we may fall in love to it everytime even after getting closer. Actually it depends.
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