Nobody is responsible for our death. We have only one request to all. Please do not let our bodies cut. As well as bury us as well. And everyone will forgive us. We can not live without one another. So we left the earth. No one will accept this relationship to survive. I can not hurt my parents by disobeying them. So I was forced to survive this way, two people Yours is Ramadan + happy. '
Reader, it's a suicide note. Two youths wrote this note before the suicide. This incident took place at Noakhara Chowdhryhat in Raozan upazila of Chittagong on September 19th. Although the parents did not accept their relationship before the death, as well as the last resort. This couple is lying on the pond side of the house. Still fresh grave The date palm of the grape is both fresh.
Ramjan Ali (20) and Happy Akhtar (16). Two houses in front of the village of Baripara in Chowdhuryhat. The distance is 50 yards above. About Beai-Baiyaino (Tala Bhai-Talala sister). Second year student of Ramadan Noapara College Higher Secondary The tenth grade student of Happy Noapara Muslim High School. Along with being close to each other, Once upon a time, two young minds dream about building houses. But the family conflict between two families This conflict also surrounds another love relationship. Three years ago, Ramzan's elder brother, Aggar and Sukhi's elder sister Lucky got married. The two families still do not accept the relationship. This matter has been rotating on both sides. What will they do? Family and relatives - Ramadan and happiness are tired of this tension. Finally, the two young men gave up their lives. Morne too could not think of anything except two. There is also the Saharan. Succesi hanged in a bundle of trees at the back of the pond and both of them committed suicide. Their bodies are found lying around each other. Sure, the suicide note is a happy handwriting.
On Tuesday, at the happy homes of Chowdhurhat, it was found that mother Zobaida Khatun was sitting in the invitation for the house. Do not speak in the mouth. Just looking at this one-way Father Mohammad Idris is still lamenting for her daughter. In the room of a happy room inside the house, the textbooks chemistry, Bengali ... The book is also lying on the table. Not just happy.
Three brothers and three sisters are happy to everyone. He was a great friend of the brothers. Two brothers in Oman's Mascot heard about the news of the deadly news of their sister's death. For two days, the dead body of the brothers is kept in the car. They were buried after coming.
Dad Idris said, 'We did not even get scared and would work in (happy). Cool, good at study also was good. The boy (Ramadan) was also calm We did not have them in our head, "said Mohammad Hassan, a happy brother from Mascot," We wanted him to be a medical officer. Now everything is finished. 'In the house of Ramadan, mournfulness of mourning. Six brothers, one and a half, Ramadan small. He was the first to leave. Father Saleh Ahmed is in Saudi Arabia He was also upset when he heard the news of his son's death.
Happy teachers of this school can not agree. During the talk, class teacher Phini Dhar Das was getting throat. He said, 'He has been the first or the second from the sixth grade to the ninth grade. But at the ninth grade he was often depressed. Which results in annual exam results. The roll number is 11. I have tried to learn from him in many ways what happened. But did not say anything. '
Acting head teacher Zia Uddin said, "After this incident, we have counseled each class. Students have told that if such an incident can not be told in the family, then tell the teacher. And the guardians have to be aware. "Ramadan's friends said that he was almost frustrated with their relationship. I used to say, 'Look, I will leave all day.' Friends, I do not understand the end of the visit.
Suicide is not a solution
Mohit Kamal, Psychiatrist
We talked about the incident of young people with psychiatrist Mohit Kamal. He analyzed this phenomenon by dividing it into three parts. Firstly, young people and mentally depressed women and men want to say that suicide is not a solution to any problem. Suicide means kill yourself. In violation of religious law and social restrictions, the law violates. Ramadan and happiness have failed to cope with the crisis. Because, they killed themselves by seeing the problem. They are murderers.
Secondly: Parents could not understand their emotions. This is their big failure. There was no deceit in Ramadan and happy feelings. Their tension was intense. The first love of young age is like this. By spreading everything, the relationship becomes very big for them. If you do not find each other, then life will end. But the guardians kept their old disputes without understanding their feelings. As a result, two lives left.
Thirdly: Parents want to say, if there is such a relationship between young people, then take careful action. They have to give an opportunity to value their emotions. They have to convey the time. The hand of compassion will increase. If they understand the reality they can make the right decisions themselves. But in the first place in our society, mental and physical persecution comes down on them. It is never a solution to the problem. They ran away after obstacles, committed suicide or engulfed the drug nets. If all attempts to overcome the crisis, they should be treated with psychiatric treatment.
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