Tell me how many times you have been disappointed by someone?
How many times have you expected others to find something you do not like in return?
Do you mistake them?
Or is it you?
Does this happen a lot ... or happened once or twice in your life?!
If the feeling of disappointment in others has hit you so that you do not remember it
It is very likely that you have dealt with the wrong person
But...
If this feeling has become inherent to you ... it is so difficult for you to trust in one
Forgive me when I tell you ... (that you are wrong)
How ??
You often may be of an emotional type
And the finest people and their thinners are the owners of passion
But ... trust in particular is not only given by passion
Our trust in others is different from our love for them
Because the underlying trust must be based on
(80% mental information + 20% emotion)
Means...
If you liked someone ... that does not necessarily mean you have to trust him
But your love supports your confidence by only 20%
You do not have to feel loved when you do not trust that this reduces your love for him.
Because love .... does not have a law
But trust ... has its laws
We trust the person because we see his actions with us and with others
Because he believes with us ... because it gives us all the reasons that make us trust him
It always proves to be trustworthy ...
Keep our secrets ... and keep our secret ...
And wise in his actions and not nervous or moody or temperament.
He is someone who knows how to take control of his affairs ... so we trusted him
A person who is trustworthy ... is someone who earns our respect regardless of whether we love him or not.
But...
The bugs are when we make
Love = trust ....... This is wrong equation
Is what causes us to feel disappointed in people
I love them yes ... but do not trust them except because they are trusted
If you love someone and you do not trust him ... then know what you say to him and what you do not say
And expected him within the limits of his possibilities ... so as not to rebel
When we trust a person ... that is because he gave us a reason to trust him by printing his character
And when we love someone .... these feelings need a lot of care and diligence and examination
Did we like the healthy person?
Is it worth our trust or not?
Our trust in others ... comes as a result of good creation and education raised and practiced in their lives
Our feelings towards others ... come from God Almighty instinctively and then thanks to their behavior with us
If you loved someone and were not trustworthy ... this love will destroy you.
And that I loved someone and was worthy of trust .... This love will grow up and no one can defeat it.
Thus supports .... good attitude ... love.
Because trust = good creation of the person we deal with.
