Hello friends how are you all. I hope you are very well and healthy. Today we are back with a beautiful block. Today's blog will be based on a new challenge in this beautiful community of ours. The channel we are given today is A Changed Child which means that today I will try to completely end my block or try to create the block based on whether we follow our children's path or let them follow their own path. Let's start taking it but one thing is that in our present time, the thinking of each person is different, the movement of one person and the movement of another person cannot be found, still I will try today to have an acceptable word on this subject, my own personal decision, I am yours. Hope to share with you
A child is the most precious thing in this world to its parents. Parents take great pains to bring up their children. In this beautiful world, always try his child so that he can go to a good position in this beautiful world. And good environment so that he can get good education and live well in a beautiful world, all parents try to do that. Parents always work hard day and night so that they can't make something bad or something clear to the child. It's a decision parents make and many parents allow the child to make that decision and that's not something I'm really going to talk about, I'm going to share my own personal words with you today.
If you ask me what I can decide. I have always tried to be the way my parents made me. That follows my parents to move forward. I tried to live my life by gathering something lighter than the way my parents raised me. Tried to make a life out of all the decisions and my own decisions. My parents taught me everything that I am where I am today. And made a life out of my own flame making everything. But I will give my child the same opportunity. The way my parents gave me the opportunity. I will try to do the same in everything, my child. I will not leave it up to my children to decide how to live their lives. It will be my decision and theirs. I will try to mention below the points that will be problematic
First of all his weakness towards studies and the way he will study. And there will be many differences in the way parents think about education
When the child grows up, he will make his own decisions. In everything then parents will not evaluate. And if parents try to say something, they will not value it and consider their own words as the biggest. Which I don't think would actually be the right decision by any means.
Incidents that put the child in a self-confident situation will cause him to fall. Because if the child is faced with a difficult situation for any reason. Then he will not be able to pull himself out of the problem and his confidence will be much more difficult.
When he falls under unusual circumstances. If he is not given proper advice and guidance in some way, then the chances of him going down the wrong path in life will increase a lot. Which will play a very effective role in destroying his life.
Socially and psychologically that child will become more dangerous. When a child chooses his own path and makes his own decisions, he will collapse socially and emotionally, which will lead to more destruction of a family and a society, enough to damage a relationship.
The most important thing is when the child thinks for himself and strives for his own growth. Then he will take a big career and financial blow. Which is whether the child does not get proper relationship and counseling. His career and finances will reach a stage where he will face the biggest and biggest hurdle to move forward
If either relationship is not reciprocated. So if the child tries to live life in his own way. Then his right guideland he needs the supporter he needs wisdom from the parents because when a child comes into the world his intelligence is not working then it is very important whether the parents show him the right decision and the way to go in the right direction. The issue is that a child should always be with the parents to provide him with proper advice and support, there is no substitute for the parents and there are many people who try to make the children stick to the decision of the child. They don't have a problem with the child's decision based on what they consider to be the right decision I will try to divide into two parts I will try to talk about first I have shared with you above what is the harm to a child if he tries to live on his own. Maybe I've created a whole block above based on that. Below I'll actually try to talk about how they would benefit if they decided for themselves.
First of all independent and respect for freedom. A child will find his freedom. He will try to improve himself in his own way. Parents should allow him to grow up based on what many people think is enough to live a life that has many problems.
The child will understand the experience himself. What he should do, where he should go, what he should do, he would be able to experience and decide on his own, whether it is right or not, but if he has his parents behind him, then that field will be more convenient for him to decide. Parents should allow the child to make the right decision
Special Skills and Great Achievement Freedom to express yourself freely and explore your own skills and initiatives to push yourself forward because a skill can only be explored by yourself and what experiences you have if you present them well in your work. If you can take it to a level, then you can be successful yourself, which I think is a kind of special freedom and privilege that a child can take on his own if he wants to.
Today in our world, many families try to keep their child's decision. To be auto above the decision that the child makes and always try to respect the decision and applaud the decision that the child has made, but there are many people in our world who in some places would rather have the child make his own decision. From the possibility of getting worse because when the child takes his own decision he will do something like leaving the religion. Leaving the religion I think is not a good thing because the religion is the one whose parents teach him if he accepts the religion. Then there will be nothing more to say about religion
In fact, every person needs to be given the opportunity to move freely. But parents must take responsibility for children. Where the child is going, what he is doing, who he is associating with, and what his future should be, everything needs to be kept in the mind of the parents, but the child should be given the opportunity to know what kind of facilities the child wants, what he wants to do. If the child tells the parents, the parents should In the words that the child is saying, what things are acceptable or the words are not acceptable or the actions are acceptable or the actions are not acceptable based on the form of the child.
