I write this letter to you to point out some things which you ought to know before marriage or as you continue in that relationship.
This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players. First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite alright that ladies are emotional only few are not. Please, don’t take advantage of that and inflict emotional pain on them.
If you know she’s not going to be your wife, there’s no point promising her heaven and earth just to get her in bed.
If you think you’re smart, your smartness cannot prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that would one day catch up with you.
It’s better you avoid the consequences of an action because of its few minutes pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I know it’s trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all youthful exuberance. See, life doesn’t go on a stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be recovered.
If at age 30 or close to it, you haven’t define your life or you’re still depending on friends, family or relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God in the time of your youth before it’s too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the devil’s music, it’s better you start learning God’s steps.
Hear this guys, love isn’t sx! Don’t tell a lady to prove her love to you because you want to have a ‘taste’ of her. I know everyone is going haywire with premarital sx but you can choose to abstain.
Apart from it being sin against God, it will make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems ‘rubber’ cannot prevent.
It doesn’t matter if she calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you become an object of mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don’t give your strength to strange women, preserve it for your wife.
Have you discovered your purpose in life? That very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without discovering your purpose on earth will make you miserable and waste away in life.
Know your purpose in life and be on track to attain it’s fulfillment before you think of going into a relationship. It’s not difficult, it would only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they contributing positively to your life or they are emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It’s not a must you hang out with friends if you do not benefit from them. You can stand alone with God and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a button of patience to press to control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with God so that your wife wouldn’t become a victim of false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the homefront.
My guy, you’re going to be a father someday. Don’t do the things you wouldn’t be proud of your son to emulate or would want anyone to do to your daughter.
If you wouldn’t want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn children, don’t tread the path now.
I’d have love to tell you more but I believe you know the importance of life and time and I’m constrained due to space.
Don’t waste away chasing every Tom, d*k and Harry for sx. Conserve your energies and channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this letter, share it or send it to a friend.
Thank you for your anticipated response as you make amends in areas where necessary.
