According to statistics, women prefer bad guys. The question arises — why?
After all, this humble guy is so responsible, such a positive, playing sports, doesn't drink or smoke – in short, just like in the song "not to drink, did not smoke, and flowers always gave, mother in law called my mother ..." and all in such spirit. Why, then, have a bully Wasi fans more than him ??? And perhaps this girl and marry a quiet and modest Pasha but will keep an eye towards Vasi that she, too, wink a couple of times )).
What is happening to us why such a strange choice, why the soul breaks often to the bad guy, and the mind to good?
Face it.
Who is this bad boy?
I want to say, we're talking about "bad" boys (the quotes are not just so) and not the villains. So do not confuse these two concepts, we are not talking about the notorious hooligans and the noble plohish is absolutely different things.
Bad guy is the one who always knows what he wants. He rarely thinks about what people think about this more. Sometimes, it can go over the heads – the goal is more important to him than any sentimental nonsense. Something can be cruel, more often physically strong, self-centered, but damn charming, and it always enjoys himself while nobody usually not interested. Towards other trying to keep the neutrality on the principle of "I like everything, I never single anyone out" or "I do not care you live, how you want, I live how I want". At work he thinks only about their profits, don't try to make an ally will not work. He, too, you will not interfere, well, if you're not going to cross the road, but also help from it do not wait – he's always by himself. But, if you manage to become his friend is another question. There could be sure that he will break all your attackers, without thinking – because you have earned his appreciation, and the rest he doesn't care.
So, why do we usually like guys?
The reasons are many, consider the most basic, those based on a woman's instinct, planted in us since the cave period.
Every woman wants to feel protected. The bad guy is able to provide such protection for the lady it is generally ready for a lot, but for other women it will do it simply because it adds love of others – and it is so nice for the bad guys, when talking about him good and bad if you say something he doesn't care. Don't try to hurt him – fail. Thanks to these qualities, he literally cripple all your enemies, even the eye does not blink.
A bad boy usually sexy as hell, it doesn't matter what his height, he may be low, bald, with broken teeth, or Vice versa high and beautiful – in any case, this man has such power of attraction that women rarely pass by it – they just can't pay attention to it. The secret is that such a man inwardly relaxed, he is aware of his shortcomings and is not ashamed of them and he knows their strengths and proud of them. He perceives himself always and everywhere the way it is – and interestingly enough, others, too, that impresses. He never tries to alter other, those who do not like him, just leave his circle of friends, and it is of little consequence, or rather do not care at all.
If you have chosen plohisha, you can say, in a sense, lucky. Behind him you will be like a stone wall, he will protect you, and if his feelings are sincere, it is quite possible that you will be his only woman. Bad boys, despite his selfish nature often then become quite good family men well, of course, after the walk up bad guys usually do not marry early, well, if you just really can't fall in love so much that once and for all. But just don't expect that life with him will be easy! It will always be something to invent and where to break, that is, you know, to stay close to the bad guy, you have to match it if he likes Hiking, start already collect backpack, if like sports, prepare him to watch football matches, loves to have his wife cook, run right now to the store for a cookbook. Otherwise quarrels are inevitable, but you can caress and a bully prismirit )). And more importantly, if you suddenly did not like his MOTHER ... or sister – he will not listen! The important thing is that you like him! A good advantage, isn't it?
Bad boy knows and loves to make decisions. That is, usually before you do not raise the question of how to spend a weekend or where to go to relax. Your bad guy decides everything for you, and will put you before the fact. Forgive him this weakness, but he can not choose the country where would you go – but most importantly, he got everything, you even did not have to strain. Just a hint trip him which attracted to it country you the next time you go there. Bad boys also love to make surprises. But remember one never skandalte and do not scold his choice. Otherwise you risk to lose it – don't forget, by their nature, bad guy proud bird might get offended! And that, above all, a bad turn for you.
If the bad guy fell in love with you and wants to make you his wife, he usually does it immediately, why did he have to think about what will happen, he wants to see you close right now. This is another important shtrishok a bad guy character that is so attractive to women. True, they sometimes like to fanaticism, are very jealous, but does not always show it – but it is better not to play with fire, these jealous and can kill, just like Othello.
Who's a good boy?
Good boy good at everything, but ... for some reason it is not as attractive to women. Let's look at the same points, so to speak compare and try to understand what's wrong with him.
A good boy usually tries to avoid conflicts in principle, therefore, if you are having a verbal altercation on the bus with the not quite polite passengers do not expect that he will rush to help you with this, it was just silent. He's not going to support you when you start to talk about their unfair boss, even if you tell him that he is to you recently started to stick – he'll think you are in a position to deal with this problem or, worse, themselves provoked such situation. It will be a long talk, to offer you solutions to problems, etc. can You imagine this bad boy? Yes, consider that your boss for such jokes in absentia already lost two teeth. What the bad boy will not understand who is right and who is wrong.
About sexuality everything individually, someone like that. Usually good boys look after themselves, and go to the hairdresser and make manicure. Dress representative, simple, elegant. But with all this, they're not excite women. Why? Well, the main reason is that they are too eager to be perfect in everything to such an extent that it becomes annoying. They usually all and always according to plan, even sex but because sometimes you want and improvisation. Besides the eternal desire to be right (not to swear, smoke, always look good, etc.) makes such a man constantly to keep the brand, which deprives him of naturalness, and hence the share of the appeal.
So, you are a darling good boy. Too bad. He will be faithful, loyal, will go to the theatre with you, to go to family dinners on Sundays – but that's just not always is because he really wants to — just so, so right. With sex sometimes also happens – often it happens not because your man wants you, and again, because it is supposed to. As for mom ... then just get ready – for a start you must like her, and then him. And if you suddenly she didn't like, nobody says that you should leave, but what the Mama about you is a fundamental composite of his opinion of you is the fact. "Mom needs to hear" is another rule to follow.
Essentially a good boy indecisive, and he explains the fact that "your opinion matters". But it often translates into the fact that all decisions always have to make you, and he is not just going to agree with your decision, and in every way to think about it and find the flaws – well, just he has to also participate in the selection, or even by one only criticism without alternatives from their side.
As far as marriage – until a good boy would not be sure that prepared the ground for your life together: a flat, stable earnings, approval of your candidacy close (do not forget about it) he not marry you. If you are willing to wait in principle, you end up organized and stable life. Only, perhaps you already run away with some "bad" boy but if suddenly it will not work, you can always come back to good – if he truly loves you, he'll wait for you.
Well, the approximate characteristics of good and "bad" boys. And that didn't seem all so dark, I have to say that the nature of purebred positive and negative men do not exist – therefore I wish you to meet a man who will gather all the positive qualities from the "bad" and good boy, and may he make you the Queen not only his heart, but of the whole world!
Good Luck To You!
