My decision to “quit money” for a few years was probably the biggest one for me. I didn’t stick with it but it allowed me to focus entirely on healing, even as I lived in near homeless conditions at times. I became able to observe society from outside which after healing allowed me to re-enter without the emotional baggage I was carrying my whole life and kind of redefine how I interact with people based on my ideals. Kind of learned to walk the walk I guess