Thank you for responding. My mother-in-law still lives with us as does her husband who is suffering from Parkinson's. However, he is doing better now that he has a more attentive and experienced doctor. I'm trained to live under the strain of life's responsibilities, but not without consequence. My wife is much more passionate and verbal than I am.

My wife's mom suffers from dementia and Alzheimer's according to doctors, but she is also very elderly approaching 85. She has declined significantly in the years since our kids have been born. It's night-and-day when I look at pictures of her from five years ago.

I knew about Alzheimer's since I was a kid. My grandmother on my mom's side suffered from it and diabetes. However, I didn't have to take care of her. I overheard of my family's experiences as they watched over her.

I'd love to read more about phenomenological constructions if you have the time to share. Thank you again for reaching out.