Hey Friends!
You know, I ran into a guy I knew from my poker days on Thursday night. He asked me what I'd been up to and I said mainly I'd been a dating coach for the last decade. He brought up Mystery Method (aka indirect aka fake method if you don't know what it is).
Naturally I told him my opinions, and he was fascinated.... but I could tell by his response he still believed you just can't be authentic with people. This is a very clever guy we're talking about.
Then again, the guy is a professional poker player so..... His job is NOT letting people figure him out.
But ... For all the other (non professional) poker players out there...... Isn't it weird guys think they still have to lie to "impress" women?
I actually sat on this..... Why... How... Where did it come from?
And of course, the answer came.... Our whole society is inauthentic.... Everything from religion, history, the economy... Even the "politicians" (More accurate: professional liars) who are meant to be our leaders - just mislead and manipulate all the time.
All of our media - lies..... And even the way people look in it. More lies.
So why would our dating strategies by anything but? The whole planet is run on a bunch of lies.
And it's all by design.
They want us dumb, ignorant, and confused... Running around fighting each other. And certainly not finding a true "soul level" connection that would empower us to become our greatest selves.
That really wouldn't serve our masters very well.....
Every time you get a negative thought about yourself.... Whether it's "women don't like me" or "I'm not good enough" or "That could never happen to me" .... I would invite you to have a sit down for a few moments and ponder where the thought came from.
Is it really your thought? Or did it come from somewhere else.... ?
You might discover that a whole range of thoughts you "have" aren't really yours.
And that just might be one of the most important discoveries of your life ;)
Have a great weekend!
Sasha