Social Freedom means a lot of things...
Yes it's the ability to do whatever you like and not care about other people's opinions BUT...
It can also describe aspects of your personality, your vibe, and the ways other people perceived you.
Social Freedom paves the way towards alignment, towards contentedness, towards stillness, towards complete self-expression...
Below, our good friend Marcus Oakey talks about his experience around someone who was RADIATING a vibe that Marcus wanted for himself, and what he decided to do about it...
One day, I was at an event when this guy walked into the room. And this guy was somebody completely different. You know when you just meet somebody, and then they stand out, they're doing something a bit different. In particular, this guy turned the air to electricity.
I don't really know how else to describe it, he was just a source. A tower of power in a world of chaos as he walked into the room. Now, I help people improve their conversation skills. I said to myself: 'I need to learn what this guy is doing!'
In fact, a really good thing to do is: 'If you ever find somebody doing something better than you, steal it!'
You'll know when somebody it's doing something better than you, because as you're talking to them, they'll make you feel an emotion in some kind of way.
So, if you ever chatting with somebody that makes you feel an emotion, ask yourself: 'What is it they are doing that's making me feel really good right now?'
For example: If somebody shakes your hand and gives your arm a little tug, and it made you laugh, go and try that out yourself. Steal that move! The ability to connect with others is really related to your ability to make that person feel emotions.
And every time somebody does something to you that creates an emotion in you, then you'll have a little magic button that you can try out with other people. So, that's just a little good hack.
Now, this guy walks in the room and he is just something different. He really stood out. And I wanted to KNOW what is it he was doing. So, I looked at him, I studied him. And I realized, what he did that was different from every other person: He. Was. STILL. He just had the -stillness- about him, this infinite depth.
And I thought: 'I wanna steal this! I wanna steal his stillness!' So I asked at the people who knew him: 'How did he become that way?' And a friend of mine said: 'This guy it's a Shaman. He helps people on journeys into the NEVERWORLD.' And I was like: 'Wow! I want that!'
As you can see from Marcus' story, the man he's talking about had mastered himself in that social setting to such a degree that he was radiating attractive characteristics without even having to talk about them.
This person was able to make other's feel emotions with very little effort.
So much so that A PROFESSIONAL SOCIAL COACH became envious of it, and insanely curious about it, and resolved to study him so he could achieve a similar power.
That is the power of Social Freedom!
Imagine if you could make people that curious about YOU!
