Some are full of wonderful, positive things, but I’m coming out of the closet now, as many other brave ones have done about different aspects of life. Have you encountered narcissistic violence? Domestic violence? Subjugation, bullying, or the use of power?
Narcissism is often considered a “buzzword” because most of them have no diagnosis.
I have experienced so much physical, mental, sexual and financial violence in a close relationship, and yet each of these situations is just as difficult for the victim of the violence - how to leave, how to get out safely, how can I get where I can get it? That’s when you feel really alone when you’ve been trampled into the ground and exhausted with all the violence.
In this situation, especially every friend and loved one is in a more expensive position than gold. I have noticed that certain friendships and relationships are emphasized and strengthened, but some move away when there are no forces to keep in touch or perhaps confused about the current situation and unable to say anything. There are no right words, and you don't always have to say anything.
Sometimes "what's up?" seem more important than any other words. I want to encourage everyone in a violent relationship to get help, both close and official. Violence in all its forms is extremely damaging and the perpetrator often no longer has the strength to leave. In addition to those close to it, official bodies include, for example, RIKU (emergency service on duty), the hotline, many other helplines and the police. A victim of intimate partner violence is also entitled to free legal aid, which can be obtained from e.g. Valuable advice from RIKU. Personally, I have gotten out of the actual relationship of violence, but I still suffer from the experience in many ways. I wish everyone in their lives struggling with these things the strength and courage to leave and save themselves.
