Honesty, Vision that carries the both of us in it and We're both financially okay

You nailed it. Any marriage that lacks honesty is bound to collapse. It's like sitting on a time bomb, it will surely explode someday.

Financial muscle is very important to sustain a marriage. Hard time seems to drive away love in the long run.
Surely, having the same vision makes it easier to achieve a common goal. Thanks for your submission.

@afrikens