I heard a story about being connected with the others people actually how to be with others. Lets start to story.
A man live in a house with garden but his garden looks like trash because he didn't care at all. Time passed and a woman moved to next house . She finished his work about his house and she decided to care about her garden. Middle of the 2 house there is a huge garden withouth border. Firstly she made her garden so beautiful. And she thought about neighbourgh's garden and he make his garden beautiful as her. Cutiest roses, trees and the man didn't say anything even thanks. One day she put a peach tree on his garden. But the man became crazy. And he is acting so rude" take it from there you can't put that tree on my garden!"
So probably you are angry as like me. How dare you say like that she made your garden so beatiful and she didn't want anything. But the keyword is here "BORDER". He didn't want anything. We are trying to be good to other. We are done many thing for them but be careful "they dont want it!". So dont waste time for people like those "just care yourself!"