I am too. I just tired that people bring out the wrong criticism. Agreed much of channel management and liquidity will be moved away from end users. In fact it would need to be. Many users aren't just going to "lock" away their bitcoin to open a LN channel to accept LN payments. Breez wallet and Phoenix are the best wallets as of now. Both hide the complex parts, open LN channels for users, a good way to monetize said users without resorting to selling data(remember bitfury LN wallet). I just saying more wallets aren't doing it probably b/c eltoo or something like it would increase security thus making more incentive to do it. Running your own node won't actually be a big deal in the future as with a stable block size but for now yeah it be some type of spv style wallet.
The UX though are looking pretty good :P