There is a popular saying that says 'don't judge a book by it's cover' because you can never know the content of the book unless you read it and I always like to use the same scenario in application to human struggles. You can never know what someone is going through unless it is been unveiled to you by that person and most people always choose to keep to their self and don't look like their problems so you can only guess what is happening in their lives. Alot of people out there have been driven to the depth of depression and are finding it very difficult to overcome it but still will put up a smiling face everywhere they go just to mask what they are really going through.
There are alot of men out there who are crying and weeping in their heart and hoping someone will just hear their heart cry but they will never show that they are in pains because of the responsibility they carry and the expectations they have to live up to. Most men even though they are going through such phase in their life where they don't have the courage to give up because of their family and love one's who look up to them to provide their needs or even slack off abit because if they do nobody will be there to pick up after them still try to deliver. That's why when you ask such men a simple question like "how are you" or "is something wrong" they answer you will get is "am fine" or "am ok" which is definitely a lie.
The reality of things is that there are alot of people working extremely hard to ease the pains of their love one's and they do that bearing and enduring alot of pains making sure their love one's are not affected in any way and they do that because you can never know where life will take you so they try to live their life to the fullest, enjoying and creating alot of beautiful memories together because you can never know the outcome of tomorrow today.
I don't think people realise how much strength it takes to pull one's self out of a mentally dark place, so if you have done that today or any other days I say kudos to you and be very proud of yourself because you did a great job. In life we should never judge people because of the choices they make because you don't know what options they were given to choose from that resulted in that decision. If you try to look carefully into your life or your surroundings you should be able to realise that life and time are the best teachers ever, because life teaches us the use of time whereas time teaches us the value of life.
The hard truth about reality is that if you wait untill you feel 'better' before you start living,then you might be waiting forever so instead of that, go live your life, do it sad, do it anxious and even do it uncertain because healing doesn't always come before the experience, sometimes it is the experience that heals you
That will be all for now, till next time
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