Assalam-o-Alikum all steemians! I hope that you all are doing fine so today I was using my laptop suddenly a thought came in my mind that thought was actually a question and that was,when do people change? The answer to this question seems a little difficult isn't it. Well I start recalling all the events that were in my mind I was looking for that event which changed me mentally.
Well! after thinking a lot the event that came into my mind was the time when I was left completely alone. Yes! I used to have One Brother and three sisters we used to live in a house happily. Ah! we were having the time of our lives I am the younger one among them so everyone use to love me a lot. At that time our expenses were a lot higher then the income! My father used to work Day and night just to put food on the table. At that time we use to envy those people who were rich! I personally thought that Money was much more precious then the happiness. Well! As people say "Time Does not wait for anyone" As the time passed things got changed drastically.
In October of 2007 My father fixed the marriage of my elder brother. He was not ready to get married he was very young at that time and he wanted to pursue his goals of becoming a professional cricketer. My father on the other hand was desperate to get him married. My brother was refusing and due to that my father got sad. At first! My brother thought it was only a temporary sadness but My father was not eating. He was just sitting in the room and also he was not taking to anyone. So My brother accepted that marriage. The marriage of my brother took place on 15th December,2007. We were very happy on that day but the real problem was about to begin. After marriage my brother started a job as a medical sales representative after a month or two my sister-in-law was not comfortable with our lifestyles. On the other hand my mother was a very angry women and due to that tensions started in our house and one day a huge fight broke out in our house between my brother and our father due to which my brother and sister-in-law left our house that event shocked me from head to toe. I was crying from inside that my brother has left me. I used to love him a lot I don't know why? between all my siblings I love my elder brother the most he is the most calm guy I have ever seen and a very hard working person.
Well After that I was left with only three sisters then In July of 2008 one of my sister got married and left us. Now only two of my sisters were living with me and then finally in November of 2010 both of my sisters got married that was one of the worst days of my life. I was left completely alone with my parents. I use to cry every night for my brother and sisters. I use to remember all the good times that we had. People! that was the moment that changed my personality! it made me stronger not only physically but also mentally. it showed me that how strong I was actually.
After that our financial status also got changed now we are one of those rich people that I use to envy in my childhood! but you know what I realized one thing that money can't buy you happiness. The happiness that we had when we were together cannot be brought with money. Today I have everything but I miss my siblings very much whenever they visit me I feel very well and I can do anything for them.