When I said Count your blessings and leave the curse , I mean pick the positive things you have experienced in life, focus on the positives and keep working on the positive side of life..
Avoid the curse , the curse is the negative moments you had in life , you need to ignore the curses if you want to stay focused on your blessings..
Holding on to the curses will not make your life move forward , if you want to have a wonderful life then you need to stick to your blessings and focus on the positive side of life..
Focusing on the chaos you have experienced in life will only make your life to keep remaining stagnant , no matter how much thoughts you give to those curses , it will not change anything so instead of frustrating yourself and spinning your brain just to get over it , why not just simply ignore the curses and dissappointments and focus on the blessings of life?
Why not focus on the good positive part of life so that you can have the inner peace which will create an inner environment that will encourage you to keep chasing success in your life..
I know you have gone through so many problems and you feel that life is worth nothing to you , well do not despair , there is still hope for you to get the best life that is desired by you..
Many people have had similar problems like yours before and even worse than yours yet they were Still able to defeat the problems , if they can successfully defeat their own problems then who said you cannot defeat yours too?
Who told you are a failure? You are not a failure , never allow anyone make you feel that way , never allow anyone make you feel that you cannot be hopeful in life , do not allow anyone make you feel it will be difficult for you to find success , do not allow anyone tell you you need to give up..
You are a Victor , always keep reminding yourself that you are a Victor and no matter what comes your way you will be able to succeed in life..
Those chaos , those problems , those dissappointments , those pains , those sorrows , those bad news etc..they are just a phase and they Will soon pass..
Please just remain steadfast and be focused , do not let your determination fade away , do not allow yourself to be intimidated by those problems and chaos that your life might be currently experiencing..
You can DEFEAT all those problems , your life is stronger than them, you are stronger than them , you are q warrior and you will win the battles of life..
You are a conqueror and you will conquer the problems and challenges of life .
You are the slayer of failure , you can stop all the failures and turn it into success..
Believe in your dreams and you will achieve it..