It's probably not any consolation but I tend to use subtitles a lot because it helps comprehension overall.

I've generally found with my kids that acknowledging that they are upset about things not going their way AND sympathising with them helps a lot with "changing your mind". Though the ADHD child takes longer because hyperfixations are a thing. These days they usually work their way through things by ranting at me and then they're happy again.

How was Daddy-Daughter sushi? :D

I feel a weird synchronicity between this and a post I just read by @alexbiojs which you might be interested in if you haven't seen it already.