Not that those who are in a relationship with someone have made it closer to a mate.
And it does not mean that those who are in solitary are getting away with their soul mate. Because it is more difficult to take care of yourself than to take care of others.
It is not wrong if those who are good at keeping themselves in solitude so great interpret the patience and understanding of the promise that will surely come.
Now you are in which position ?
Someone who has a bondless relationship with another person or who is struggling in self-perpetuating.
solitude?
It's back to your own personal choice, because your heart works for yourself. The awareness of what is done is entirely your will.