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Don't chase money. Seek to invest in what people need. Seek to create what brings value to their lives.
Smart people don't believe in everything.
They are busy finding solutions. They are busy making their lives better. People spend too much time worrying about finding the right person. They don't have enough time to become the right person.
You end up average when you are distracted by everything and can't compete with anything. Push yourself when you don't need to. Your future self will thank you. You will have a better relationship when you are already happy.
Stop seeing yourself as a vision. Life is giving you challenges. It's your opportunity to grow.
Take a hint and become stronger.