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Stop being yourself as a victim. Life is gifting you challenges.
If you call boostmates, you feel like you are stupid but you actually get smarter. People with no goal and no ambition continually invent drama.
Hang out with ambitious people who know what they want. Staying calm under pressure is an overlooked case. Never underestimate your ability to ruin what you have.
Life loves to strike when you start growing over confidence. Hang out with smarter people. They don't stick to expressionality, there is less drama.