Communicating with children is not easy compared to communicating with adults.
Communication will be effective and efficient between parents and children if we take into account some of the things that are relevant to the child's natural state.
If God wants, if we try to understand and act accordingly, we can effectively convey the message to them.
When it comes to communication, we need to make sure it happens in two ways, not just one. That's why make sure your children are ready to receive what they have to say.
Check if what is said is understood or not. Ask the children to repeat what we tell them.
The meaning of communication is the response we receive. If the reaction is not what we want it to mean, there is something wrong with our communication with the children.
What is said is important, but its effectiveness depends on how it is said.
Parents must understand the importance of a message delivered in a clear and sincere voice.
There are times when parents say something in a fun way.
That is why only raising the eyes of a small child knows that his mother is angry and then stands still while facing the crowd. Here the effects of communication are on body language.
Similarly, when the boy was climbing a tree and his mother said in a high and severe tone, "Ha ... climb again, not very high. Climb again, climb again!
The boy descends from the tree when told to climb, but the mother's tone meant something different.
The voice affects communication.
The child can detect if what the father says comes from a sincere heart or not.
Something that comes from the heart is engraved in the heart. He stays there and is remembered for a long time.
When we ask children to study, express in a tone that reflects sincerity. It is not because we are concerned that we are ashamed that a child does not succeed. We prepare them for the future.
When we advise and speak honestly, we cannot be tired and impatient. We continue to do what a parent must do.
As previously stated, something that is said is easy to forget. Also, there are many things you want to think about one day.
Therefore, not only talk, but also follow with SMS, notes, letters, written on blackboards, etc.
Diversifying the media shows that we really want to say what we say. It also makes it easier for children to remember what we want.
Never underestimate the power of communication with children. Each child has his own unique personality. Don't compare your child to anyone else, especially his own siblings.
Parents are expected to be able to and at least try to communicate effectively and efficiently with children using age-appropriate language and understand the conditions children are experiencing at the time.
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