It comes out to be something like the sudden roar of an unexpected earthquake, right?
First you see how the muscles tense ...
The expression on his face changes ...
The tone of his voice rises ...
I may even raise my hand ...
Or that the insults appear ...
The screams…
The crying ...
Yes, we are facing an attack of childish anger!
The magnitude of the “explosion” will depend on the circumstances and the participants, but the important thing is to be very clear about what to do in the event of “seismic movements” of this type.
How do we deal with this attack of anger by a child?
What measures should we take to manage the anger of our children from a space of respect and humanism?
We talk about it below.
Anger is a totally natural emotion.
Your child, since childhood, feels anger, just as he feels joy, sadness, fear and disgust, the other four natural emotions of the human being.
They all have their function in our body.
Anger is a defense mechanism against a possible attack.
When another child insults or hits you, for example, anger "turns on" that defense mechanism that invites your child to action.
And hence immediately your body physically reacts quickly and powerfully.
So fast that you usually don't have time to reflect or think of alternatives.
That is why it is so important that you teach him to channel anger.
That it learns from you to identify an emotion that, like all of them, can guide you on your way, as long as you know how to manage it with balance.
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