I have seen many manuals to survive the children and their problems but what about the other side of the coin? With that part that nobody shows about the behavior of the parents or of a specific father in certain circumstances related to the children?
While we love our parents our children we have to keep a diary to know how to deal with them because they admit it ... They have some tricks that we have to learn to carry if we want to survive in this world until we become independent. And that can be exhausting!
As children we have two sides, first we need them to grow, to do things that without them we could not, they put the tools in our hands so that we have that future that comes close to what we want, they give us what we can really use to open that window or door that takes us to our final destination. Then there is the other part where we seek our independence, the power at some point in our life to leave the parental wing and open our own wings to freedom.
This is rather a personal diary from my own experience including doubts that I could never resolve about my own mother's behavior for those who seek a point of reference or know that they are not alone in dealing with difficult mothers or fathers.
