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a bpd diagnosis often lands us here nor there.
without an actual emotional relationship with a therapist, it's hard for the bpd patient to relate to their own compulsive and impulsive selves in front of strangers.
The following screenshots are taken from:
https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhausted-woman/2017/02/an-interesting-mix-male-borderline-personality-disorder/