What I kNOW today:
Anytime, I have the thought that someone is not ready or not willing (ie friend, son, daughter, sister, mother, boyfriend) - it simply means I have an internal dialogue (conscious or unconscious) that I have a specific criteria (aka expectation) to meet before I feel ready or willing to take specific action to improve my situation.
As long as I have this dialogue within me (aka resistance), I will manifest actions from others to prove my dialogue of THEM is valid, therefore, not taking action or accountability for my own progression (evolution).
When I choose courage over fear of self-discovery, the resistance is released and I can manifest my life with ease and lightness.
Start paying attention to your dialogues, brothers and sisters! If you need support, find it!