Ah, don't be too hard on your Aunt. I'm sure she cares in her own way. REconnecting with her at Christmas has probably reminded her that connection with you is important. It can be frustrating I'm sure, to tell the same story over and over. People sometimes don't know the right thing to say or even how to respond or help. And I'm sure you feel pretty isolated in this experience - it'd be very hard to explain to people. Here's a hug xx