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You have to know about life without you know. Don't forget that magnet attracts without making noise that is what truly define values.
When I talk about that making noise or over impressing others. True value doesn't need to beg for attention it attracts easily without any formal obstruction or challenges. That is why you need to focus more on building your value because that is watch other people.
You don't go about trying to connect with people or finding connections or making people come close to you without any value. When there is value, people talk to you naturally and they flow with you without any hesitation.
That's why you have to always work to increase your value and chase your purpose.