Everyone of us as grown up adults at some point in our life ask this question to ourselves that what actually life is - our choice, destiny, or deeds? Don’t we? Also, not many among us get the answer quick or say accurate answer quick. It is because once we start making steps towards maturity, there comes many unexpected and unbelievable circumstances in life that it becomes difficult for us to deal with them. There comes a time where our struggles seem unending and since we face it all for the first time, we get confused, make a lot of mistakes, and maybe for a long time do not find a way ahead. Then, as we somehow overcome one struggle, we learn something from that, similarly again as we overcome next struggle, we learn something from that also. Slowly and slowly as we face back to back struggles and realize that life is nothing but a beautiful struggle and we have to deal with them till we die and that too happily while living the live to the fullest, our journey of understanding the accurate answer of this question begin that - what life actually is. Yes, the thing is, it takes time, but the truth is only that only by facing a lot struggles in life and dealing with them fearlessly and happiness we get the accurate answer on what life is.

Well, according to my experience of life, let me tell you that what I have understood about life is - Once we are grown up, life is a series of ups and downs, bad times and good times, letting good people come in, removing toxic people from life, learning the art of differentiating between good and bad, good people and bad people, moving ahead no matter how hard the circumstances are, knowing and taking responsibilities on time, respecting elders, loving those smaller than us, keeping curiosity to learn new thing each day, being willing to grow each day in career, in character, and in overall life in general, selflessly helping those in need in anyway we can, bringing a smile on someone’s face in anyway we can as we will get blessings and we always need big, hard blessings in life to succeed in life and to live a quality life, saving money, designing your ideal life, spending quality time with family and friends, wanting money but not running after it so badly that you ruin your happiness and peace of mind because of it, realizing that there is no time to be happy and we have to enjoy each and every second of life meanwhile balancing our personal and professional life, and living all it amidst all it.

The almighty has given all of us life with a purpose to fulfil on Earth. Some recognize purpose early while for some it takes time to recognize their purpose on earth. To fulfil that purpose and to live our best life, we have to design our life first. We have to decide how we want to live our life - with our choice, depending on our destiny, our by doing our own good deeds. According to me and as per my experience of life, life is in a way all - our choice, destiny, and karma. The only one and simple thing is we have to make a good choice on our life, do good deeds always, and then destiny always, eventually, and for sure will fall into place. Remember this thing and never forget that. And now I think you have got your answer on the question of the title of my article.

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