Obsessive, Possessive

I woke up very early this morning because of the continuous beeping of my cp. I forgot to put it in silent mode yesterday (because I was expecting a parcel delivery, which unfortunately didn't arrive yet), so I awoke with a start and immediately checked what time it was. It was still 3:00 A.M, and when I checked why it beeped, I found out it was because of my messenger app. I brushed it off because I thought it was probably just from the various group chats I'm in, so I just put my cp on silent mode and then slept again.

It was almost 5:00 AM when I woke up again and after stretching, I opened my phone and was shocked with how many new chats my messenger had. I opened it and saw that the majority of those didn't come from the group chats, but from a certain person who's in my message request. I checked it and saw how many times, he chatted with me. I don't know him, so I find I really creepy why he's messaging me that early and chatting my name as if I knew him. I just closed my messenger and decided to just browse my FB feed to distract myself. However, upon checking my notifications there, I was appalled because his name also appeared there.

I checked what he had commented in one of my shared posts and I was really creeped out when I read how was insistent he was in asking that I should check my messenger account. I'm starting to get annoyed and a little afraid, so to clear my mind, I read his whole message. After reading the entirety of his weird demanding chats, I realized that he was accusing me of hiding my friend and was rudely asking if my friend was currently in our house. Upon reading those, I realized and remembered that he was that ex-boyfriend that my friend cried for. I immediately replied to him that my friend didn't sleep in our house. I keep the message really formal and straight to the point because I don't want to act buddy-buddy with that jerk. Also I don't want him to bother me again so I made sure to clear it out.

However, after some minutes, he messaged me again asking if my friend had gone to our house but when I didn't reply him, I was bombarded again with his messages. I just kept on flatly replying that she didn't sleep or stayed with us and before he could message me again, I blocked him. I chatted with my friend the moment that jerk bombarded me with questions, but she just replied that I should just ignore him. I was definitely worried about what was happening between them, and she said they already broke up months ago and since that's the only thing she shared, I didn't press on further, but one thing's for sure that man's asshole.

I know my friend is really patient when it comes to relationships, and in the past months, I've been hearing how that man slowly changed. At first, she just jokingly shared with us how jerky he had become lately, but since she loved him, she endured that behavior. Of 'course, I already tried talking to her about how she didn't deserve to be treated that way. I even made a lot of stingy comments about that jerk, but still, she's the martyr she is. That cycle continued for months, until one day, she just stopped talking about him. I was relieved because finally, she woke up and was free of that jerk, but after I experienced how persistent that jerk was, I kinda felt worried for her.

I know he was certainly trying his best to be polite to me, but his rudeness just reeks out. The way he just chatted out of nowhere without any greetings or introducing who the devil he was was lowkey rude. Also the way he addressed my friend as if she's his possession really pissed me off. Even if he apologized for the inconvenience afterward, that apology became meaningless when he bombarded me with questions. And because I didn't have the patience and tolerance for jerks, I blocked him. For good. I'm praying that he will not bother us again, especially my friend...Xxx.

She already experienced a lot of hard stuff, and I guess those are already enough. She doesn't need that problem to come back again, and certainly, she's better off without that scum of a man.