An essential tip - LOH contest week #263 / Un consejo imprescindible - concurso LOH semana #263 (eng-esp)

Hello everyone.

The question from @trucklife-family is quite complicated to answer. At the same time, it's quite simple. The most difficult part is giving advice different from what everyone here has already given masterfully.

So, to answer this week's contest #263, I would tell my children to be themselves.

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I have two children, a boy and a girl. The boy is the older of the two. They don't have to emulate anyone or be like anyone else. They don't even have to be like each other. The fact that they are siblings doesn't force them to be the same. Even if they were twins, they wouldn't have to be.

Each person is unique, and that's the wonderful thing about nature. We've given both of my children the same upbringing, with the same values, and under the same roof. However, they are two completely different personalities, and that's the best part.

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What makes you different makes you unique; that's what makes you special. People have to love and respect you for who you are. And if you're honest with yourself, that's the face you'll show the world. Whoever loves you has to accept you for who you are. Whoever doesn't love you, well, that's their loss. We don't have to be liked or be liked by everyone. The problem in that case isn't you, it's the other person.

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No one has ever seen a natural leader who is like everyone else. On the contrary, leaders are unique, and their followers are the ones who, in one way or another, try to emulate their characteristics. That's why, by being yourself, you can become a leader. No one moves forward by following someone else. Leaders are the ones who set the pace and point the way.

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Hola, estimadas.

Es bastante complicada de responde la pregunta de @trucklife-family. Al mismo tiempo, bien sencilla. Lo más complicado es dar un consejo distinto al que todos ya han dado aquí de forma magistral.
De modo que, para responder al concurso de esta semana #263, les diría a mis hijos que sean ellos mismos.

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Tengo dos hijos, un varón y una hembra. El varón es el mayor de los dos. Ellos no tienen que emular a nadie ni parecerse a nadie. Ni siquiera tienen que parecerse entre ellos mismos. El hecho de que sean hermanos, no los obliga a ser iguales. Aún ni siendo gemelos tendrían que serlo.
Cada persona es única, y es lo maravilloso de la naturaleza. A ambos de mis hijos le hemos dado la misma crianza, con los mismos valores y bajo el mismo techo. Sin embargo, son dos personalidades completamente distintas, y eso es lo mejor.

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Lo que te hace diferente te hace único es lo que te hace especial. Las personas tienen que quererte y respetarte por lo que eres. Y si eres honesto contigo mismo, esa será la cara que le muestres al mundo. El que te quiera, tiene que aceptarte por ser tú mismo. El que no te quiera, pues se lo pierde. No tenemos que gustarle o caerle bien a todo el mundo.El del problema en ese caso no eres tú, sino la otra persona.

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Nadie ha visto a un líder natural que sea igual al resto. Al contrario, los líderes son únicos y sus seguidores son los que, de un modo u otro son los que tratan de emular sus características. Por eso, al ser tú mismo, es que podrás convertirte en un líder. Nadie avanza delante siguiendo a alguien. Son los líderes los que marcan el paso y señalan el camino.