Saying you are sorry when you are the one at fault, is not a thing to feel that your self worth is declining but is it a bold steps that encourages good heart and love, to yourself, your people and in your neighborhood, at times the way we say things may hurt the next man, due to the words we used and the ground but when we noticed something like this, it is right for us, to make them know how sincere we are and that we didn't meant to say anything to hurt them.
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Making apology does not really means, you are the one at fault but it shows respect for oneself and others, it shows a kind heart and a good loving person, one thing which is always outstanding in the life of a man is that, little things we do, can greatly gear one towards real life change and little mistakes we also do unknownly too, can as well attract what we didn't expect to ourselves, so for one not to admit to mistakes, I see this as something not good.
Being submissive is never a difficult tasks and as far as life is concerned, it would never be difficult, I remember meeting a friend who was so gentle, i was happy because he was such a friend I was looking for and he possess the qualities I need to see in a friend and so was i, we were just so alike, so cool together, he understands me and so did i, he never allow me to say it twice, when he knew his attitudes were wrong, he would never hesitate to put an apology before me, it was the best I have loved of him, I never gave it a delay, I say what I needed to say when I know is high to me to say it, I am grateful to him, because it is through his gentle heart, that I learnt to apologize if I am at fault.
Because he make it so easy for me to see the needs of apology.
we all are aware that common refusing to say "I am sorry" tear some family's apart, that is when, a partner refused to say this word and keep on carrying it shoulder up and believing that, he shouldn't apologize, even when needs arises.
I remember the word of one elderly man, who says that "peace carries a better end while violence can only make you a slave" by then I didn't understand what he was saying, but now, I can understand that, he meant that, violence would never give a man a peace of mind.
while peace is all round peaceful.
At times, the little words we perceived as common has a bigger interpretations.
I once attained an event, where lists of items to be called was drafted on a piece of paper to the Mc, so that it would served as a guide for him, to know the items to be called one after the other but what the man did was to think he can memorize everything that was written in that piece of paper within a second, it happens that he didn't like it, he just wanted to speak without a piece of paper on his hands, but he messed up, because practice make perfect and before he could have done it that way, he should have gotten the lists of items to be called before time, read it and memorize it, but to think he can just clammed everything within a second and be up for the event, he was wrong.
When the event begun, as the MC, he was the one to called on each activities but he did not flow as well, he was missing the items on the list here and there, making the whole place unfavourable for the celebrants an their guests.
Why did this happen, it was because, the MC think above himself, but I still admired his style, because he didn't failed to apologize, when he knew they was need for apology, he realized that what happened was his fault, so he accepted the blame which makes his style to lived long in my heart.
Then what did the people do, it was clear that everyone makes mistakes, they put the blame on him but they later forgive him, making mistakes is normal but what makes it not to be normal is repeating the same mistakes again and again, an habits of continuous mistakes is not good, I see it as something unpleasant to oneself.
Let understand the importance of apology.
We should learn from our mistakes to become a better people. Let show love and loved one another as ourselves.
Together we are building a better world.