Discipline is not only a word, but a narration, philosophy, wisdom, meaningful, ethical, adoptable, successor, moral, eligible, historical life practice ever we have ever known. It’s quite impossible to make anyone understand the meaning of a word or a sentence. Discipline plays the most vital role in our lives. Without discipline, no one can achieve success in life that we have ever known or understood. Without discipline, people will lose their target, achievement, goal, everything. To be a successful person, you must have discipline in your life. Discipline is required everywhere, for individuals, for a family, for a society, even for mankind and its existence. It’s a good practice, it is the only option that has no bad impact or bad results, discipline is for everyone, and it has no boundaries. But what about children? Children are innocent by nature, and childhood is also a learning time for the children. As we know, discipline from childhood is the key to success and a perfect lifestyle. Unfortunately, child are always undisciplined by their nature. It is too tough to ensure discipline in children, but necessary. Discipline for children has always been a controversial subject in our society. Some people do not take it seriously; they think that it’s childhood, and there should not be any obstacles or boundaries for that. On the other hand, some people believe that discipline should start in childhood, otherwise in the future it won’t work for them and quite impossible to maintain them in discipline. Different people have different opinions, they have different approaches to discipline in children, but all of us are in one place that discipline is required in childhood, and it is necessary.
Discipline in taking food, play, study, and sleep is practiced for the child. If a child not take balance food on time he/she will get sick and unhealthy, if not discipline in play then will fall in quarrel and fighting which could be bad for their physical and mental health, if not study on time then not able to compete with others in school, if not sleep on time, either early or delay could effect their physical health or mental health. Overall, discipline is mandatory for all children, but too much pressure on children for discipline could be a bad result for the children’s physical and mental growth, which is a big concern for every parent. But how and who could settle the limitations and rules for the children of their betterment regarding discipline? If we look at our previous generations, the parents were too strict in teaching and maintaining discipline in children, in some cases also neglecting the discipline of children in poor families. From that point of view, the parents were quite successful in making their children disciplined, and the result was positive. But in the present generation, parents are not wishing to bind children in discipline, they are leaving them to their children’s will and liking, with no boundaries, everything for enjoying childhood, nothing can be an obstacle for the children. As a result, we can see some good results and some bad results in children; some are good enough for their adoption in discipline, and some children’s practice is too bad, they are out of control and not able to come under discipline again, which is a matter of thinking. This mix results is now a big headache for the parents about their child, where discipline is the most important subject for the upbringing of their child.
In respect of discipline for the children, I think we should take care with polite and soft-handed, not too difficult, and not harsh to the children, as it is mandatory and necessary for all children. Playing of children is also required and can teach lessons for discipline, Playing is a natural possession of every child. The rules of discipline should not be a burden for the children, with proper care and gradual implementation of discipline into the daily practice of the children, which should be enjoyable, easy, and appropriate for them. We should ensure that children can take the discipline from themselves in playing and the way to achieve gifts, and parents shouldn’t forget to adopt the same discipline along with the children. With the discipline of parenting, we can achieve our desired results in disciplining children at every stage, whether in study or play. Discipline should be easy-going and acceptable for the children; there would be no boundaries for the time and limit. Practicing discipline in everyday actions can bring good results for the children and will be a long-term practice for them. I wish to see a disciplined ambient and atmosphere for all children where they are taught discipline as a model and adopt discipline to enjoy to build their future life and a future disciplined world.
