Hello all! Here is some info about myself. I am a mother of three great kids which most posts will be about. The eldest is 11 female (Ali), almost 3 son (JR), and almost 1.5 baby girl (Bailey). They give me the drive I have everyday and others literally drive me crazy; which i'm sure you will get to read about each ups and downs. There will be no more additions to our family. We made the permanent decision on that one and I had the surgery to solve that! Hubby loves to go and tell people I got fixed... as I then kick him in the shin! He was to scared to let the VA do a surgery come out without his man part or something lmao.
I got married to my "high school sweetheart" 
I am now also a caregiver for my husband who is a disabled veteran. He is the reason I am starting to post on here and try and have an outlet to get some support of others who maybe having to deal with some of the same struggles. So to him Thank You very much for this outlet! As for the reason I am his caregiver he has been diagnosed with PTSD and TBI. He also has a bunch of physical pains that are all over but its the mental portion that the VA has me actually being the caregiver for.
As for myself who am I, that's a great question. I seem to get lost within the kids and my husbands struggles. Maybe with these postings I can actually find out more myself. I've always heard the saying "you can't pour from an empty cup to take care of yourself first" but haven't ever figured out how to fill everyone's cup so to say. So I look forward to writing more posts in between the kids fighting with each other and my husband needing me to remind him where he left his brain at. As for my name, I am as the name says though a redhead who is hotheaded. So being a devil has come more often than not which somewhere just made me put together the handle redheaddemon.
@redheaddemon
PS. Graphics coming soon!!! cough
