If you want to become a mediator, you have to think about a lot of things and come to a decision. Because, a mediator becomes bad or enemy in the eyes of most people. We often think of an intermediary as a third party Sometimes we ourselves are considered a mediator without our knowledge. I am often considered this. I am considered as a mediator between my sister and brother I stay at my sister's house for my studies Sometimes when there is a problem between sister and brother-in-law, I try to solve it as a third party.
One day in the evening I suddenly heard my sister and brother-in-law talking from my room. Talking very loudly. I came out of the room and went to their room and found out that there was some dispute between them about money After that sister said, Your brother-in-law took money from me but now he is not hunting. I then tried to solve it. As far as I know, brother-in-law sometimes takes money from my sister, but gives it later. But this time I did not know when it was taken So it was difficult to talk in between.
I first put two people in one place Then I said tell me everything.馃檪馃檪馃槆
Sister: Your brother-in-law took some money from me 4/5 months ago . But it was supposed to be given later, but the money has not been given yet.馃え
Brother-In-Law: : I don't remember when I took the money, so I can't pay that money.馃馃
I then explained to both of them, as this money belongs to your family . Whatever he takes, he takes it for his family? That's why it's better to forget about it. My sister was a little unhappy with me for saying this. Because the word has gone in favor of the brother-in-law. Anyway after a lot of explaining they both understood.
Being a mediator may require you to listen to a lot. Enmity with others may also arise. But you must keep yourself neutral while solving the problem between the two. If not, good relationship will be formed with one person and enmity will be created with another person. For this reason, the effort should be made to solve the problem of judging all aspects in an impartial manner.
A mediator is a person or medium for whom two parties may survive or further enmity between the two parties. Someone's life can be saved and someone's life can be lost. That's why a mediator should always go between two people thinking, trying to solve the problem without going.
