LADIES AND THE SOCIETY.
Most times ladies face a lot of oppression from the society when it comes to decision making about their life..
Mostly its all about society view about your age and marriage...
Elucidating the picture above:
At age 25, the society feels you have tried enough, done with school, have a job already, and all dey wait for is ur wedding invite, the want a celebration they believe it's the right time to start a family but most ladies think far better than that....
At age 26, all you want is a very good job, money and how to build up your career, so as to prepare for the future, but all the society sees is thay you are only wasting time building your career because they believe you can still do that after marriage..
At age 27, then the society opines that at least u already have a career, so there should already be an invite, you need to settle down, but still no invite....
At age 28 and 29,
they start telling you the risk of getting married late because they believe men loves to "catch them young" they start to feel you are the problem, they start to make it look like you are the unserious one who doesn't want to give a man the chance to love you..
At age 30,
now they are tired of talking to you about marriage and all you hear them say is you aren't getting any younger, go get married'
Most replies from the ladies are "It's God who gives husband"...
At age 35, the society make you feel like you are no longer looking good (which might be true though) and you might hardly find who will get married to you but ladies will say "love isn't about age, beauty or the skin" ..
At age 40, the society give up on you and just feel like, you want to die without having children of your own? let me see how you find love and life again, you are wasted already..
But they forget that it's none of their business
A message to the society