Thanks for writing and sharing this! I just went on a date today and found that there was so much that wasn't visible (obviously) from the little bit of online info. We did talk for a while before meeting up but it's no substitute for in person interaction. The last few really rewarding and enjoyable connections I've had have been with people I met in person and had a very strong chemistry with or a strong curiosity for them. This has taken place at a weekly gathering where we come together for some practice/ceremony and potluck (if ya don't know, it's where people bring food to a gathering and share it). the connections based on mutual interests. I have had one really enjoyable connection from online dating and even then there was a noticeable difference in the presentation and the reality of the person.
A great conversation to be having