Anger is a natural human trait. It is rare to find a person who has never been angry. Now the question may be whether anger is good or bad. My opinion is, yes, it is very bad. Anger is a poison which destroy us slowly. And votile anger is worse. Because of this, many times big accidents happen in the blink of an eye.
Anger never do anything good. It make the things difficult. If there is a chance to be successful , anger make it impossible. Sudden anger is make us mind aggressive. Then we can't think normally. All the world became toxic to us. Actually we become toxic. Anger make us think reversely.Make us suspicious. Make our relationship hard.Its not a new opinion. Form the beginning of the civilization, there are many proofs that anger make things. Many wars are broke out due to this anger issue. Millions of people are victims of this anger. Isn't it surprising? So I also refer it as dangerous personally . Infact I can relate it from my personal life.Many times in anger I took very bad decision that effected my life badly.
Many greats said in this context. Lets see what they said.Rathat monan said,"Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy". Aristotle said "Anybody can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody's power and is not easy." "Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame."said by Benjamin Franklin.
There is a beautiful word called Empathy. Empathy is being able to imagine yourself in another person's place. If you can bring empathy in yourself at the time of anger, life becomes easier.I ask myself, "What I am going to say to another person, would it hurt me if that person said the same thing to me?? "If the answer is yes, then I shouldn't say it .I should stop or explain it in a different way so that he doesn't get hurt .Life is very uncertain . I don't know if I will wake up tomorrow morning.
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