Hello everyone and welcome to this week hive reachout community,my name is @quin.lizzy and today I will be writing about the topic"saying No".
Most atimes we decide to say yes to some many things which aren't what doing because so many people are doing it and the need to feel along or not to stress ourselves doing the write thing since the bad has become something normal in our days.
Today I will be writing about "No"and how it has helped me in life.Growing up there are so many activities that I had to say No from in other to avoid some unnecessary things or events.
From going out with friends and choosing to stay at home instead.I would be writing about an incident that I was able to avoid with just saying No.
Being in school,I was all indoors.My friends always try to come to my house to keep me company even if the suggest we go out or take a work I would decline and even though the are pissed off the already know that being inside my room is what I do best.
So that evening,the came and pleaded that we take a walk,it was already 7pm and it was late for me to go out.I was a bit bored that day but I couldn't step out, after so many arguments and refused to go with them and stood my ground.
The went and spent so much time outside,for some reasons the decided to meet up one of there friends and before the knew it,time went by and it was already 10pm.Where we were staying was a bit quiet and not so a busy student area.
So by 10pm,there was hardly a ride back,and the needed to be home because the were having a early morning class the next day.The decided to walk it back home, unfortunately for them that night was not like other night,the were attacked by some guys who collected there phones,luckily for them the were not injured.
The came home,cause we were in the same lodge all frustrated,if I hadn't say no to them,then I would have had the same faith with them.
Most at times is better to say No and avoid so many events that would lead to regrets but saying No takes a lot of courage and determination cause you would be alone.
Let's learn to say No to what we believe isn't right and stand by our words.Thanks for going through my [email protected].