Nowadays people have started dancing with their prestige and started seeing it, that is, the more dowry it gets is considered as the highest status. People think that if they are rich or their son is on a very high office then they should get more dowry, many people advocate themselves by telling their dowry as their compulsion like we have spent a lot on our son's studies. , He has spent so much in preparing for competitive exams or from very large institutions / foreign countries, so that's why we want some support from the girl's household ..... Actually they are not They think that if they are really capable then they should not take dowry at all, because the taker is always small, given it goes to someone who is not able to buy himself or earn his own things on his own
In fact, in the dowry system, there is more fault than the groom's side of the groom's side. People think of their daughters as a burden, do not get much educated, and when they get a highly placed or wealthy girl, they want their daughter to be married to him in any way, and for that they pay any price Are ready. Then begins to quote more bidding, the way a salesman sells his salmon, by offering different kinds of attractive temptations, similar kind of temptations are given to the side party. Now the person who has so many options, he can also understand himself with attractive temptations, otherwise he will not be less than the king
If the bridegroom's people improve themselves, then surely they can get rid of this problem, if girls are educated and made self-reliant, then the self-confidence in them and their family will be awakened and they will be able to show their greed and temptation Necessity will never be required
