Everyone can do it if they want to. The problem is that many people do not want to. Reasonable if its sustenance so-so wrote even tend to drag. some traits that can make a person withdrawal of sustenance.
(1). Not arrogant.
The same arrogant nature as takabbur but different from ujub. Both are self-exalting qualities, but the difference between them is not to underestimate others. Different with takabbur / arrogant, in addition to exalting himself he also lowered others. Nothing is great except him, others there must always be a lack .. The vanity keeps people away from sustenance. Personal penarik sustenance did not exalt himself.
Arrogant people usually can not be grateful. Feeling the sustenance he received was appropriate for him, the result of his hard work. Yet if God would in an instant the sustenance / favors could have been withdrawn to return to His owner.
(2). Not hating.
Why should there be hatred in the chest? Because we feel that others are hurting us by what they do?
Personal penarik sustenance is difficult to hate others because he knows that hatred is fire and fire it can burn the soul. If his soul burns how he can approach God?
If can not deketin God, how mo expect sustenance? Another hate effect is the delay of God's forgiveness to him. Man is wrong place, wrong reply and his sins are not forgiven for harboring hate in heart, how good sustenance mo?
(3). Not stamped people
Why we so easy to label a stingy, greedy, gossip, plebeian, like a sister, can not see people happy, ugly, like corruption or liar?
It is as if we are so sure that the person reflects what we have labeled him. As if he had nothing else good, which was useful and positive to him? Are you sure that we are much better than him?
Are you sure we do not have the properties we label them?
Do other people want to be our friends, want to pray for good for us, will pray us cheap sustenance if we mostly label them ugly?
