I feel stuck, lost sometimes and I think it's fine. When we are into so many things, it's natural to feel stuck. There are a lot of moments in my life where I felt stop, stuck, and devastated and ended up taking the wrong decisions as well. I am aware of such kind of feelings, especially when I confronted such difficulties. I take a pause, stop thinking, and become more calm and quiet.
Life is a race and we all are running somehow, the speed limit is different though. Whenever a barrier comes, we feel stuck and don't know what to do. For example, when we are surrounded by so many problems, we feel that perhaps my life is stuck and I can't move forward. This is not true, that's just a feeling, we often come up with a solution, it just takes time that's all.
One thing I have learned from life, it's unstoppable until your last breath. Somehow you will figure out all the solutions to your problems. You will see difficulties, perhaps you want to quit as well and tell yourself that I am done, this is it, I am quitting...This is the end, but it's not. My depression phase was quite dark, the person you are seeing now is a new person. It took me almost 4 years to recover and become something that I was never before. I know the dark phase of my life, it's quite painful.
A few days ago someone told me, why you are calling yourself a dog's mom, your age is to become a mom of a child, not of a dog. This sentence is hurting in fact somehow it's pinned on my heart. Somehow inside I felt a pain, weird pain. People laugh at me especially the people from my own culture. I wish I could explain how it felt when I saw that text and I felt stuck. I doubt myself thinking maybe I am not moving forward, maybe I am still stuck at 10 years back.
Many things we don't know about our life, we feel that our life played an unfair game with us when we are stuck, we don't find any explanation. We react, we become selfish and self-centered, and always blame our luck. Why this is happening to me or maybe I am the only one who is a way more behind. Yes, we highlight our problems, we focus on what others are saying, and as usual, we are stuck and don't find a way to get out.
But trust me everything has a solution, you just need to find your own way. Whenever this happens to me, I become calm, think, and refresh myself. Just like you just press the restart button of your computer. It's not easy, perhaps you are thinking about what she is saying, just bullshit.
Maybe I don't know the cause of your problems, maybe I don't know your situation even I can't imagine your mental situations but one thing I can say that if you think twice calmly, you will find a way to move forward...
Love
Priyan
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