Living in this world made me realize a couple of things. We live a life with different experiences, cultures, beliefs, perspectives, and even the slightest things, we have differences. Some are eating with a silver spoon, and most of us are using our bare hands. There are aspects of life that we could never touch. And that made me ask a question to everyone. Do you find life unfair?
In this blog, I want to share my thoughts and ideas about seeing both the positive and negative sides of life. Maybe you are curious about my answer to the question that I mentioned above. You already know that I will answer it right here, but let me tell you my perspective about life first.
Life is an opportunity to have the freedom to do whatever you want. The chance and blessing given to us can experience both the greatest and darkest moments in this world. Sometimes we face a lot of problems, and we have been at our worst. And you once thought that life was unfair.
Is life unfair? Or is it giving us the benefit of the doubt? As for me, life is not one-sided. It just happens to be unjust when the person says or thinks so. Sometimes we cannot solve problems, and we feel that we lack the integrity, power, and strength to overcome the challenges in life.
We encounter people who eat using a silver spoon without doing anything while working so hard to buy food. We sometimes see an easy-going person, and we hope we are like that too. During those moments, you have the idea that life is unfair.
As I said, maybe life is not unfair. Even the richest, kindest, most robust, and most intelligent people experienced shaking to their core because of the challenges and situations. We are dealing with our own, and we have different battles to win.
Sometimes I find life unfair when I am tired, exhausted, or overwhelmed by too many problems on my plate. But when I get up and get better, that is when a realization hits me. Life is not unfair, and you have to learn to live with it reasonably. You make your fate, and you must understand that every situation has its meaning and reasons.
Sometimes you feel envious of someone because they have something that you don’t, and that is okay as long as you take it positively and make that your inspiration. You can work hard and have that thing too, or even have more than that. Do not think that you are less fortunate for being in that situation.
Do not make yourself feel that you have no worth just because you cannot be in other people’s positions. Change your mindset and start working on it to avoid thinking that life is unfair. Make a change and improve something positively. Please remember not to underestimate yourself and what you can do. Look for the hope that can open your eyes and see that life is not unfair if you do not think that way.
Author's Message:
I am Moxie, a woman who writes down her thoughts and life reflections. My adventures in this world will be shared with everyone. Through my words, I want to let the world know that I exist, and so do my written pieces. Thank you so much for reading. It is nice to know that you came across my blog and spent a few minutes reading my story. See you on the next one!
