Give home to go to work and your wife stays home to look after your children and home.
Both of you are working, looking after your children and are keeping some of the most
lasting job on the planet.
Stop underestimating and undervaluing it. God forbid that your side should die. You will not be able to work anymore until you can find someone to take care of your children. And not just your kids, your house as well. And if you do, you will not have to pay that person so as a husband have that at the back of your mind that you are in an economic partnership with your wife which is why your income is also worse so why you help provide she helps protect and also take care of the family it is a partnership job that suits the union very
over.