In a sea of clouds, hate is a darkest puff.
No matter how calm the weather is, dark puffs come out in a blink just like hate.
Hate is so inevitable while life still remains for it is like a violent and devastating typhoon, very turbulent condition, that drains and tarnishes the spirit through a darkest frame of mind.
In fact, it leads to the detriment of a complex life, and that it is like a terrible emotion of a cloud in the sky.
Many people claim that it is so hard to decide when your heart is filled with hatred. I admit that allowing hate to run would only end up with suffering and a lot of regrets as anger often makes us lose ourself.
”Personally, I have experienced allowing hate to cloud my judgement wherein I was difficult to control, but I have learned the best lessons through a bad weather and through the storms of life.”
Perhaps hate does not only go in solo, yet it comes along with jealousy and selfishness as it brings a worst soul, making anger echoes to its maximum.
In the real world, no matter how good and kind we are, we cannot really please everyone, and that the world would lucidly tell us that there are some souls who would dislike us, belittle us, hate us for no reasons, and destruct us silently, even if we are not causing harm at their lives.
Hate blocked my ability to solve dilemmas, which rooted from people who were attacking me just because they were jealous of me in terms of my personal and professional achievements.
Being born as very sensitive, little by little I was losing confidence and I have been filled with hatred for there were people who hated me me and tried to drag me down, but humility, kindness, and compassion were so loud to me as they embrace my soul graciously.
Some days, people were so good because they want something from me, but when they already got what they want, there comes betrayal. Due to hate, they were trying to drag me down through making issues and false stories that would ruin my reputation. But I firmly believe that staying calm through the storms of life would save me.
As a result, I felt drained, however I was able to withstood the hard times. Haters would badly hate but I believe that love would always dominate the world.
Despite being hated by others for personal reasons, I never lose hope to make things right by being true to myself as I let go of hatred.
When I am very angry, I usually end up with an ocean of tears. I just cry it loud as I kept to myself my heavy emotions, and I learned to let go of hatred through ignoring a false story, proving myself right, and staying positive.
Ignore a false story.
The easiest way for people to destruct us are through making a story that would make others hate us. They spread a false story so the clan becomes bigger and stronger. But then, when we know that everything is just part of the play, the best thing to do is to ignore a false story. For a greater self-esteem is also a best defense against toxicity.
Prove yourself right.
Other people would make us feel weak about ourselves making us lose our confidence. This is something that is beyond our control, and thus, it is a matter of being a motivation that could fuel our dreams to come true. We just need to prove them wrong with due respect by simply proving ourselves that we can make things right, and that we can always make it until the end come what may.
Stay positive.
Despite being hated for so many reasons, staying positive is key. It is a matter of standing straight once more and back taller again in spite of being blown away by a turbulent storm of hatred. Stay positive with a humble heart.
Consequently, hate could be a terrible emotion but this is just temporary, and that we must not make the worst decisions while we are angry.
There would always be a perfect time for peace and serenity in a respectful atmosphere where relationships never die. Let live with a moment of reconciliation before it is too late.
Thus, never ever let hate to cloud your judgment for it drains and tarnishes a soul. Instead, let us spread more positivity through a bright reflection of a pure heart.
This is my personal response to 
”Have you ever allowed hate to cloud your judgement?”
Disclaimer: All texts and photos are my own, unless otherwise stated
