Everything in the world has a duration. Just as love has a duration, hate also has a duration. But everything actually has a lifetime. You will see that every product, every object has a lifespan. Our own life is the same. That is, in our life, we cannot live longer than the time that the Creator has given us. We cannot live longer than that.
So why did it seem to me today that we often think that we hate many people for eternity or that we actually hate them as if they were forever, but that is not the case.
What I mean to say, to put it in a simpler way, what I actually mean is that you will notice that when we hate a person, one thing keeps going through our minds, that I will never forgive that person in my life. But this is completely wrong.
Because, you will notice one thing very well, that as much as you hate a person in the beginning, after a few days you can no longer hate him in that way.
In some cases, we may never forgive, that is a completely different matter. That is, I am not talking about all cases. But in most cases, what I have seen is that we actually forgive people gradually. Gradually, the black darkness of that hatred becomes much lighter in our minds. Maybe we cannot accept it because we are actually defeated by our conscience and do not admit it. But this is the truth, this is the eternal truth, that hatred does not last forever. At some point, hatred also becomes so dirty that we cannot even feel it much anymore.
Hatred also has a certain period of time. When that period of time ends, we gradually start to like that person, which is not the case. That is, if we do not hate that person, it is not at all the case that we like or love that person. However, our feelings for them become empty, from where both hate and love actually go away. In my opinion, there is nothing left but emptiness.
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