Minimalism isn't just about having less; it's about comfort, peace, fulfilment, and a sound mind. There are so many benefits to embracing minimalism; they originate from within and grow to cover diverse parts of our lives: physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and socially. In this post, we are asked to focus on the social life benefits of it.
My social life was a bit sparse while growing up. I wasn't the type that paid any attention to my social circle. I can't even remember having close friends, but I was surrounded by so many friends. It may be that I wasn't interested in making close friends or I was too carefree to realise I never had one. Whatever the case, it's never bothered me.
I was the kind of girl that loved to sit alone outside my hostel window to admire the beautiful sunrise and watch the little birds on a coconut tree. I never felt lonely except when I was missing my family.
Fast forward to the present; I've become more intentional about living a minimalist life. I've learnt to choose my friends according to my taste in life. I have very few friends—no close friend yet. And that notwithstanding, I can walk into a room and draw all the attention to myself effortlessly. It surprises me most of the time because I know I don't have a smiley face, so what is it that they saw in me? I'm still finding out.
Minimalism has created a huge impact on my social life. I've had more peace, joy, and satisfaction from wanting less. In the case of friendship, I've seen that having so many friends can hinder one from discovering themselves. Because they won't give you time to think, or less practice mindfulness. What you'll do is join the trend and may even end up living a life that belongs to another person. My focus has been on quality over quantity: quality social gatherings that will bring a positive impact to my life, quality experiences with friends and family. Quality conversations and quality bonds. The less the quantity, the more the quality.
I love people, but I love my space more. I find it difficult to open up to people; some say it's because I fear getting hurt, but I don't think that is the case. I easily feel overwhelmed, distracted, and drained when I have more on my plate than I can handle. That's why I prefer to unwind in a serene natural setting rather than in a bustling, noisy restaurant or lounge.
Social gatherings aren't really my thing, especially if they're outside my box of interest.
If an event doesn't excite me from home, I know attending it would not earn me a good experience. So on the day of such a gathering, I retreat to my room, dive into a novel, or get creative with my makeup kits. I'm not one to chase after friendships or seek friends's approval. I value relationships, but not at the expense of my peace and happiness.
Minimalism has opened my eyes to the beauty of life, especially during chaotic times. It's taught me to treasure even the smallest things, given me the strength to handle my emotions and mental stress on my own, and the benefits just keep coming. It is like a powerful drug; once you start embracing it, you can't help but be obsessed by the inner peace it offers.
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