Sometimes we need to create an aggressive outlook
The best way to defeat anyone who attack your own self is to prevent them to attack you from the first time.
In order to achieve this goal, you have to make an impression that you are stronger than in reality. You need to create a rumor that you are a little bit mad. If you lose, you will bring your opponent to the mud with you.
You should create this rumor and and make it more believable with some impressively aggressive actions.
The vagueness is sometimes better than a direct threat: If your opponent is not certain that what he or she would have to pay to face you, he would not be risky.
Because:
- Everyone would attack you if you seem to be vulnerable and sensitive.
- They never know whether you are weak or not but they will infer your characteristics from the sign that you reveal based on your actions in the present and in the past.
- They seek easy victories in a quick and effortless way. That is why they search for weak and defenseless peopl.