Hey no problem my friend and sorry for the late reply, I've had a really back this last couple of months and it's been difficult to sit down write/concentrate. I think its the hardest thing to sit back and watch your child make their mistakes, stumble and fall as they attempt to stand on their own feet, but like I say , he has strong foundations to build from and the love of his family to warm his heart .. I'm sure he will find that awareness, indeed our hardest moments often mask lessons that can only be fully appreciated in retrospect. I think with his girlfriend, certainly for yourself .. it is best to keep the dialogue open whilst offering a firm but fair hand of friendship .. if that is not respected yoru answer lays therein and nobody can say you didn't do your very best.